Alone together!

 
     Just a moment ago, my friends posted in his Facebook page about his feeling toward Facebook website, and how much displeased he is about it , and that led me to try to write about it, I know that I'm shitty writer but I like to have my own full clear vision about a specific topic and I found talking about Social Network in general and Facebook in particular interesting enough, so to begin with I think I have to start with my 17 years old when I was allowed to have a first access to the Social Network...and I can tell that those little websites so psychologically powerful, that they don't even change what we do, they change who we are. Some of the things I do now with our devices- only a few years ago - I would have found it odd or disturbing, but they have quickly become to seem familiar, just how I do things.
      So neither I nor any one else can change the fact that Social Network has somehow
changed our lives, To the better Or the worst ? this question s answer depends on the self...Does this matters ? Of Course it does, we are setting up each other for trouble, trouble certainly in how we are relate to each other , but more trouble about how we are related to ourselves, for our capacity for our self-reflection, we are getting a new way of being alone together, people want to be with each other, but also elsewhere, connected to all the different places they want to be , they want to go in and out in places they want, because the thing that  matters most to them is control where they put they attention, but it can end up Hiding from each other.
        Texting, email, posting, blogging all of those things let us present the self as we wanted to be, we get to Edit and that means that we get to delete which means that we get to retouch. the face, the voice, the body not too little, ot too much just too right....human relationships are  rich and demanding and we just clean them up with technology.
       Personally, I prefer a real conversations, face to face because I just love to  look at how beautiful the smile drown in my friend's faces like the sun set clouds on fire rather then see some hhh , I like the real hugs and kisses rather than XOXO, I don't like to see ****is typing, i like to stare at the eyes of my beloved people, to read their eyes, some little Mega bites of Binary system can't do that even in video chatting, I like to hold my friends and my family's hands while talking to them, but.......exactly there will be always that BUT...
        We are being disturbed by many people in social network, I will take the case of Facebook, Facebook affords the option of Blocking people and if you can't block it because of some Protocols and etiquette there are an alternative way...put them in a category in which they don't see any activity you do, Facebook affords as I said of classifying your friend to "Close Friend", "People I don't want them" and so on.  you can give every category a specific features about how they can see you...which sometimes comes in handy...I mean all the time.
       So here you are dear readers in the end a quiz that you may wanna play; can you imagine yourself without social network life ? the place where you probably got to know a people who listen to you, cared about you, who made an impact in your life and became part of it, and by your absence you would make them anxious and worry about how and where you are ?  they can do other efforts in order to reach you and solve the puzzle of a disappearance? do they deserve to be hurt by you ? if yes then delete your database from Social Network...Just do it

I like it...


I like those moments for no reason an over dose of enjoyment and happiness enter your heart without knocking, deciding to stay and give it a squeeze and some Extra beating,  when u wish that time stops and just be stuck in the here, it is cuz...? oh no I don't think So.

There is a girl within my soul

There is a girl within my soul
that beautified herself with chastity
And there are freckles on her cheeks
that grew from musk
And l lost my mind
I lost my sanity when I saw her
And when I tried to approach her she refused and walked away
And when I tried to approach her she refused and walked away
If you see her tell her
that I am so deeply in love with her
And mention me with all the good things
hoping that one day she would give me a chance
If you see her tell her
that I am so deeply in love with her
And bring her to my grave after I am gone
as my bones are craving to be stepped on by her feet
Now my soul is calling her
and my eyes are following her footsteps
The only thing that cured me
was my hope
that one day I would see her again

It is unbearable

Hamduli Allah and I hope You will be okay, I'm just not ready for another lost...

سورة القيامة

﴿ بِسْمِ اللّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ ﴾
لَا أُقْسِمُ بِيَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ ﴿١ وَلَا أُقْسِمُ بِالنَّفْسِ اللَّوَّامَةِ ﴿٢ أَيَحْسَبُ الْإِنسَانُ أَلَّن نَّجْمَعَ عِظَامَهُ ﴿٣ بَلَى قَادِرِينَ عَلَى أَن نُّسَوِّيَ بَنَانَهُ ﴿٤بَلْ يُرِيدُ الْإِنسَانُ لِيَفْجُرَ أَمَامَهُ ﴿٥ يَسْأَلُ أَيَّانَ يَوْمُ الْقِيَامَةِ ﴿٦ فَإِذَا بَرِقَ الْبَصَرُ ﴿٧ وَخَسَفَ الْقَمَرُ ﴿٨ وَجُمِعَ الشَّمْسُ وَالْقَمَرُ ﴿٩ يَقُولُ الْإِنسَانُ يَوْمَئِذٍ أَيْنَ الْمَفَرُّ ﴿١٠ كَلَّا لَا وَزَرَ ﴿١١ إِلَى رَبِّكَ يَوْمَئِذٍ الْمُسْتَقَرُّ ﴿١٢ يُنَبَّأُ الْإِنسَانُ يَوْمَئِذٍ بِمَا قَدَّمَ وَأَخَّرَ ﴿١٣ بَلِ الْإِنسَانُ عَلَى نَفْسِهِ بَصِيرَةٌ ﴿١٤ وَلَوْ أَلْقَى مَعَاذِيرَهُ ﴿١٥ لَا تُحَرِّكْ بِهِ لِسَانَكَ لِتَعْجَلَ بِهِ ﴿١٦ إِنَّ عَلَيْنَا جَمْعَهُ وَقُرْآنَهُ ﴿١٧ فَإِذَا قَرَأْنَاهُ فَاتَّبِعْ قُرْآنَهُ﴿١٨ ثُمَّ إِنَّ عَلَيْنَا بَيَانَهُ ﴿١٩ كَلَّا بَلْ تُحِبُّونَ الْعَاجِلَةَ ﴿٢٠ وَتَذَرُونَ الْآخِرَةَ ﴿٢١ وُجُوهٌ يَوْمَئِذٍ نَّاضِرَةٌ ﴿٢٢ إِلَى رَبِّهَا نَاظِرَةٌ ﴿٢٣ وَوُجُوهٌ يَوْمَئِذٍ بَاسِرَةٌ ﴿٢٤ تَظُنُّ أَن يُفْعَلَ بِهَا فَاقِرَةٌ ﴿٢٥ كَلَّا إِذَا بَلَغَتِ التَّرَاقِيَ﴿٢٦ وَقِيلَ مَنْ رَاقٍ ﴿٢٧ وَظَنَّ أَنَّهُ الْفِرَاقُ ﴿٢٨ وَالْتَفَّتِ السَّاقُ بِالسَّاقِ ﴿٢٩ إِلَى رَبِّكَ يَوْمَئِذٍ الْمَسَاقُ ﴿٣٠ فَلَا صَدَّقَ وَلَا صَلَّى ﴿٣١ وَلَـكِن كَذَّبَ وَتَوَلَّى ﴿٣٢ ثُمَّ ذَهَبَ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ يَتَمَطَّى ﴿٣٣ أَوْلَى لَكَ فَأَوْلَى ﴿٣٤ ثُمَّ أَوْلَى لَكَ فَأَوْلَى ﴿٣٥ أَيَحْسَبُ الْإِنسَانُ أَن يُتْرَكَ سُدًى ﴿٣٦ أَلَمْ يَكُ نُطْفَةً مِّن مَّنِيٍّ يُمْنَى ﴿٣٧ ثُمَّ كَانَ عَلَقَةً فَخَلَقَ فَسَوَّى ﴿٣٨ فَجَعَلَ مِنْهُ الزَّوْجَيْنِ الذَّكَرَ وَالْأُنثَى ﴿٣٩ أَلَيْسَ ذَلِكَ بِقَادِرٍ عَلَى أَن يُحْيِيَ الْمَوْتَى ﴿٤٠

Fight Or Flight



Fight or flight' response is an instinctual response that helps you face danger or escape
it is up to you

The role of failure in my own life, is it important to share with others ?

  

        I say, "No, I don't" and to get to the reason why I answered this way, you and I have to think about success and failure a little differently than we're used to.
       To begin with, Winston Churchill once quoted as follow “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
       the fact of how scientists or entrepreneurs are not ashamed or afraid to share their failures should be pointed out. They share often and without hesitation because their goal is to advance everyone’s knowledge of how the world works, and figuring out how it doesn't work is an essential piece of that puzzle.
     To return to, I believe that what matters most is the lessons you learnt from our failures experiences, so instead of telling you my melodramatic sad failures stories, it would be better to sum up the scenario into WHAT I HAVE LEARNT FROM  ?, and here you some of it; if something isn't going to work, fail fast. Don't waste time, Don't tie yourself to a particular business model. Be ready to pivot; be ready to adapt.
     In the end those little failures experiences will just make you more practical, you will gain a real-world experience, will make u practitioner...isn't this enought
see? no drama just reality plus I'm not neither a scientist nor an entrepreneur...